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Self-Discovery: Stop Comparing your journey to others.

Updated: May 20

Have you ever found yourself comparing your journey to someone else's? My husband, a seasoned auto detailer, faced this challenge when he transitioned from being a mobile detailer for years to opening his first shop in 2019.

For over 30 years, my husband honed his craft, building a loyal clientele and a reputation for excellence. However, when he made the leap to open his shop, he found himself comparing his progress to others in the industry. He would often hear about other businesses with larger client lists and more media coverage, leading to feelings of inadequacy and envy.

It took a toll on him until he realized the futility of comparing his journey to others. He understood that success is not a one-size-fits-all concept and that everyone's path is unique. He learned to appreciate his journey and accomplishments, recognizing that they were a result of his hard work and dedication.

His experience taught me a valuable lesson: comparison is a thief of joy. Instead of focusing on what others have achieved, it's important to celebrate your own journey and progress. My husband's story is a reminder that success is a personal journey, and it's essential to define it on your terms.

Here are some trendy tips to help you own your journey to success:

- Define your vibe for success: Take a moment to vibe out and define what success looks like for you. Let your values and passions guide your path.

- Flex your strengths: Embrace what makes you uniquely you! Show off those strengths and talents like they're the latest trend.

- Throw yourself a victory party: Instead of scrolling through others' highlight reels, throw your own celebration for every win, big or small.

- Show some gratitude: Make gratitude your daily mood. Appreciate the journey and all the dope opportunities it brings your way.

- Keep it real: Stay true to yourself, no matter what. Authenticity is always in style, and it's the key to unlocking your true success.

So, the next time you find yourself comparing your journey to someone else's, remember my husband's story. Embrace your uniqueness, celebrate your achievements, and stay focused on your path to success.


Author Bio: Cherie Harris is a seasoned life coach with a proven track record of helping women unlock their full potential and achieve their goals. With a deep-rooted belief in the transformative power of intentional living, Cherie empowers her clients to make deliberate choices that lead to lasting success and fulfillment. Connect with her on LinkedIn for valuable insights and join a community dedicated to living with purpose and passion. To book a complimentary session with Coach Cherie click here.


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